ahh, fedi is very noob unfriendly
It's in general, you need to be aware of good and bad instances and how federation works (for example) to use it well.
Its more complicated to use, and these isn't too many resources to learn, specially in other languages than English, in comparison of other propietary services like Instagram.
Yea, there are friendly people than can help you in fedi, but that's not the only factor.
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